Experience...

"Good judgment comes from experience, experience comes from bad judgment" ~ Jim Horning

You can't always go back, sometimes you just have to take the plunge and do something you've never done before. Cross your fingers, close your eyes, jump and hope that where you end up is better than the place you started.

Sometimes it isn't. While you may have lost something along the way always look for what you have gained... The times when you have to look the hardest, seem to be when you must look within yourself...

At the end of the day when you can come away from it all with understanding, that is when you have succeeded.